Fix Your Love Life: Stop Talking So Much!
An expert says we need to stop blabbing and start connecting.
Dr. Adam Sheck thinks talking is NOT the key to good communication in a relationship. Dr. Sheck claims that men can only “tolerate” so much of that. Talking about feelings makes them feel “young and insecure.”
A better way to get your man to open up is to “share” experiences and adventures together, so they feel comfortable discussing things. “Don’t talk so much!” Dr. Sheck says. “Instead, SHARE your life with your boyfriends and your partners and your husbands. Sharing comes from a different place and has a different intention than talking does, at least for men.”
When men are comfortable with you, they feel more comfortable talking! Who knows, soon they may be going on and on and on and on and you won’t be able to get them to shut up! (YourTango)
Libby Keatinge is a senior editor at BettyConfidential.