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He Needs to Find Himself
Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I was dating this really nice guy, but he broke up with me because he said he feels he needs to find himself and heal from a six-year relationship that he called it quits on early this year. He says he really likes me a lot, and I like him a lot too. Is he a waste of time and is he being honest? His best friend also doesn’t want us to be together and has a lot of influence on him.
Avery: It’s reasonable that someone coming out of a six-year relationship will need time to figure some things out. If he truly cares about you and wants to pursue something with you in the future, then he will. If that happens – and his best friend still has a lot of influence over him – it will be a good move to become as friendly with the best friend as possible. Even in this interim period, if you have interaction with the best friend, do your very best to win him over. The dividends could really pay back!