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Dear ASK REAL GUYS: How can I tell if my boyfriend is attracted to me? I’m asking because every time we’re about to have sex he tells me to put socks on. I feel like he isn’t interested in me, even though he constantly tells me that he is. He is not able to perform sexually unless I wear socks – specifically longer ones – and sometimes when we’re in bed he will say that he needs me to wear them in order to ejaculate. We have been together for over four years, and he only recently began demanding that I sport socks during lovemaking. He claims to adore my legs, and I wouldn’t mind pleasing him this way if it were once in a while.
Avery: It sounds like your boyfriend has a sexual fetish that involves socks. If you have a terrific relationship in every other area, and you don’t find his sock fetish offensive, then just live with it and concentrate on all of the other good and “normal” aspects of your relationship.