commitment

20. Where Have all the Good Men Gone?

ASK REAL GUYS Where Have all the Good Men Gone? Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I need advice on how to find a man who is willing to commit, because every time I try to date someone they play games and then disappear after sleeping with me. How can you tell if a man really likes [...] Continue reading
In the G Spot

21. In the G Spot

In Her Words In the G Spot Becoming The Girlfriend without having The Talk By: Kim Essency I’m not quite sure how I got here. I’d been dating Mike for about two months, and we were hanging out on a Saturday afternoon. He needed to stop by his office to pick up some papers. A [...] Continue reading
The One, but Maybe Not the Only

22. The One, but Maybe Not the Only

In Her Words The One, but Maybe Not the Only Lightning can strike and mean nothing By: Mayra David A few years ago, my best friend and I went on a weekend road trip from New York to Montreal. There, beneath the northern stars, at an open-air screening of some film about love and miracles, [...] Continue reading
Attorney at Love

23. Attorney at Love

Attorney at Love Advice: Do the Little Things By: Valerie Vinyard Jim Duzak’s phone voice is deep and soulful, like one of those “love-line” DJs at night. Which is fitting. The self-described “Attorney at Love” has spent much of his life dealing with issues of marriage, divorce, single-parenting, post-divorce dating and remarriage. Duzak wrote the [...] Continue reading
Right Hand Ring

24. Right Hand Ring

In Her Words Right Hand Ring A commitment to me -Nicole Christie Your left hand says, “I love you.” Your right hand says, “I love me too.” So DeBeers proclaims in their “Right Hand Ring” campaign. I can’t be the only one who fell for this men-who-needs-’em, modern-day bra-burning declaration. I certainly epitomize the target [...] Continue reading