men and intimacy

1. He Wants to Be Alone

ASK REAL GUYS He Wants to Be Alone Dear ASK REAL GUYS: What does it mean when a guy says he wants space? Avery: When a man says that he needs space, he’s unsure of what he wants from the relationship that he’s in. Sometimes a man may feel like a relationship is moving too [...] Continue reading

2. Am I Being Used?

ASK REAL GUYS Am I Being Used? Dear ASK REAL GUYS: Can a man be loving and attentive if he’s only after sex? How do I know if I’m just a booty call? Avery: If a guy only calls you late at night, or texts you asking “what are you doing?” but never actually gets [...] Continue reading

3. My Boyfriend Can't Express Himself

ASK REAL GUYS My Boyfriend Can’t Express Himself Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I’ve been with my boyfriend for two months; we were friends for five months prior to getting together. I really love him but I feel like I’m walking on eggshells around him, because he is always so negative. The entire time that I’ve [...] Continue reading

4. Is My Boyfriend Addicted to Phone-Sex?

ASK REAL GUYS Is My Boyfriend Addicted to Phone-Sex? Dear ASK REAL GUYS: I am 56-years-old and three years ago I met a man on a phone-sex chat line. I love him, and I moved from Georgia to Wisconsin to be with him. He says he loves me, and we have had sex maybe 10 [...] Continue reading