That Treasured First Time – For Sale

this is the story about a woman who is putting her first time up for sale.

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That Treasured First Time – For Sale

Can you really put a price on virginity?

-Megan Southwick

young womanAh, I remember my first time so well. We tried to make it so special. My roommate agreed to spend the night across the hall with someone else so we’d have privacy. My boyfriend and I pushed the two single dorm room beds together (yes, I was a freshman in college before I gave it up). We left the desk lamp on for ambience (you know, because candles weren’t allowed. No open flames!). It was magical and memorable – not because of the atmosphere, but because I was with someone I loved, at a place and time of our choosing.

Natalie Dylan is going to lose her virginity in a memorable way too – because she is going to be making millions of dollars on it. Oh yeah, and she’ll be giving it up to a complete stranger, someone she doesn’t love, quite possibly someone she doesn’t even like, or for that matter know anything about (except that he had enough money to take the bid).

More than 10,000 men are competing for a one-night stand with the 22 year old, with bids all the way up to $3.7 million – more than enough to pay for that master’s degree in Family and Marriage Therapy she says she wants.

Dylan, who already has a degree in women’s studies, claims that she decided to offer her virginity to the highest bidder after watching her sister pay for a college education by working as a prostitute for a mere three weeks.

She told the Daily Telegraph:

“I think me and the person I do it with will both profit greatly from the deal”.

“I know that a lot of people will condemn me for this because it’s so taboo but I really don’t have a problem with that.

“My study is completely authentic in that I truly am auctioning my virginity but I am not being sold into this. I’m not being taken advantage of in any way.”

Mmmh. I see.

Call me crazy, but isn’t she, um, SELLING her virginity?

I consider myself pretty forward thinking, and certainly she can do what she likes – it’s her body, she is an adult, and I am all for supporting the sex worker industry as a whole, but come on, let’s call this what it is: prostitution. (By the way, she’s running the auction out of the only state in the union in which prostitution is legal, but I’m totally sure that’s just a coincidence.)

Am I insane for not seeing the merit of this as a study? I don’t need any in-depth research to tell me that old dudes will pay a LOT of money for the chance to take a girl’s virginity. They are still just as dirty old as they were young – only now they have the means to pay for it. And, as forward thinking as I am, I can’t help but believe that your virginity is still something special, and not something to be sold off to the highest bidder.

But maybe I AM just crazy and it’s just not that big of a deal. What do you think? Are the days of treasuring your virginity just done and gone?

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15 thoughts on “That Treasured First Time – For Sale

  1. CaliGal says:

    Well, she is an adult and can make her own decisions. People are selling worse things out there… I, personally, would never do this but it’s her body and she can do what she wants. (Now that said, I wholly agree – this is NOT research!)

  2. busybee says:

    while your first experience sounds great, for many others it’s not, so i’m not sure why this that much worse – at least she’s getting paid. But still ewww

  3. Ivory Keys says:

    Ohhhhhhh, I was hoping from the title that we would be able to buy back our virginity! I was going to say I’d take two!

    I do agree that she’s not being taken advantage of– she holds the power. She’s doing what she wants when she wants it. And she’s going to end up quite wealthy as a result of it.

  4. deborah says:

    Geez…I don’t even know what to say on this one. On the one hand, she proposes an interesting way to make money. On the other, it is something she’ll have to deal with for the rest of her life.

  5. DEBIVAIL says:

    how sad is this. i’m really speechless.

  6. EnticingEnigma says:

    So controversial! I agree with Deborah on the fact that she will have to deal with this for the rest of her life. This could be emotionally damaging. But if not, good for her!

  7. Rosewood says:

    This is still prostitution. I have nothing against it, per se, but let’s call it for what it is.

  8. april says:

    I just want to know what her PARENTS think about this!

  9. lonewolf says:

    This is insane, immoral and just plain stupid. How can she be positive she will not get a disease doing this? HIV doesn't rear it's ugly head overnight or even 6 mos later. The perverts or proverts, what ever they prefer to be called, are perpetuating the cycle of men using women. They are promoting sex for sale. These men are rich yes, but if they are willing to pay her the insane money for her virginity I would be willing to bet they have paid other women for sex. This is risky to say the least. To think her sister is even helping her. Is nothing sacred anymore? I know it is unusual to still be a virgin at her age but there will be a man someday that wants to marry her. He would be a fool to marry a woman who has done this. I know this is not the 60's and 70's. I am a parent and if one of my 2 daughters were to do this they would not ever make it to complete the transaction. I WOULD KILL EITHER OF THEM. This woman (can't call her a lady as a lady doesn't do this) is sending the message that it is ok to lay down and give your virginity to anyone. She is nothing more than trash.

    1. Enygma says:

      Sex on her own terms is not ok, but murder is? Killing your own children also fine? Are you insane?

      A father selling off his virgin daughter for cattle, land or whatever ( a dowry) is just fine, but she selling it off on her own terms, not ok…..

  10. Manicmommy says:

    I just saw this today and thought, THAT WOULD MAKE A GREAT SCOOP, and HERE IT IS ON BETTY ALREADY!!! YOU GIRLS ARE FAST AND GOOD! This girl is DIRT! But, she’s SMART DIRT and she’ll probably do something shady at the end to get out of it or something WAY OUT THERE will happen–they will buy the rights to the movie if they haven’t already, and she’ll end up NOT having to give up her PURENESS and she’ll make her MILLIONS AND KEEP HER CHERRY anyway. I bet that’s EXACTLY what’ll happen!!! So actually, my guess is all this is a plan on her part, and she’s really NOT going to do it in the end, and it really is just a study in human nature and HOW STUPID MEN ARE and she’ll end up NOT GIVING IT UP and some man will admire her for THAT, SOME VERY RICH MAN who’ll want her for STAYING PURE and marry her and take her virginity on their wedding night and then she’ll dump him later and STILL BE RICH.

    Oh yeah, she’s a smart one. Her cherry will stay intact. Mark Manic Mommy’s words.

  11. BettySchmetty says:

    Are you serious? How is this immoral?! Where is this big list of morals that you have to follow?! And if you quote the Bible, please just stop yourself since you already committed sin by judging, just stop. Shes old enough to make decisions on her own. She doesn’t have to ask her parents for their blessing. Sheesh. I lost my virginity at 22 with my BESTFRIEND who I didn’t love but I knew that I would never regret it and I was logical about it. Who are you people to judge? Seriously. Who says you have to wait for marriage?! That was a way of man controlling women. Move on with the times ladies and stop judging people. And regarding STD’s, shes probably fully aware of how to protect herself. In regards to being a lady, what does that even mean?! Selling ones virginity has been happening for CENTURIES!!!! Men would sell their virgin daughters to make a profit and Men would also buy virgin women aka marriage to gain property. It still happens in developed countries. I commend her for taking control of her life and making decisions not of the norm. Shes showing people that she doesn’t have to follow the typical role that has been set by men.

  12. grandmajoyce says:

    Interesting that none of you have commented on the insanity of some male person bidding millions of (post-tax) dollars for something as transitory as the fleeting pleasure of bedding an anonymos woman for a few moments –

    The winner does not pay enough in taxes.

  13. april says:

    To BettySchmetty — lots of horrible things have been happening for centuries but that doesn’t mean they are right or healthy. And how does this how she’s “not following the typical role set by men?” I’d say she’s pretty much falling exactly in line with a role men love!

    I am not outraged from a moral standpoint, but I think this is damaging for this woman. And I STILL want to know what her parents have to say about this!

  14. judy_m says:

    My first time was AWFUL. I think a few million bucks would probably make that memory a lot more pleasant. But alas, my hymen is ancient history now. Sigh.

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